So sorry to hear this, but it sounds like she had a good life. Your father didn't know?My 89 year old mother had a massive heart attack yesterday. For her age they had little to work with as she also had kidney and liver damage. She died this morning. My mother was said by a high school friend that she was the kindest and sweetest person they had ever met. She was my best friend. Glad I had her in my life all these years. Now I have to tell my 98 year old father that his wife of 72 years has left us.