My advice would be NO, NO or Heck NO on the ammo. Factory sealed cartons would be the only way I might think about it. Home brewed ammo and I'm back to the NO, NO, and heck NO department. It's just a lawsuit waiting to happen. Smithy.
You should do a search of ammunition sales laws for your state, the state you would be sending it to. As well as transportation laws for ammunition. Also you should check federal laws regarding sale and transfer of ammunition.