My understanding is that the subsonic .38+P will penetrate deeper than a 9mm with a higher velocity. I'm not sure of all the details here, but with penetration being second to shot placement...there's definitely a point to be made here!
With regards to a 9mm 'approaching' the .357SIG caliber...the closest in energy production at impact that I've ever read about is maybe 75% of the .357SIG caliber...if you're lucky! While I will agree that foot-lbs of energy expended, as compared to a .45 round, may be similar, however, when up close & personal 'bigger is always gonna be better' in my opinion!
That all being said, the last 3 individuals shot and killed by our local 'bigger city' PD, using 9mm ammo, were all shot once and pronounced dead at the scene...whereas our local 'small town' PD had an officer who shot a guy twice in the chest with a .45 at a distance of 5-6'...after he pulled a gun on the officer...and that guy lived to sue the crap out of them!
While I prefer the .357SIG (or even better, the .357 Mag round), and I do have a .45 for personal defense...I currently carry 9mm. Why? Because my wife can handle it well...and I feel it's important that we carry the same caliber / magazine when out-&-about! Her loads are 115 grain JHP +P's...and mine are 124 grain JHP +P+'s! While the +P+'s don't match up with a .357SIG in head-2-head comparison, I'm comfortable enough with their performance to carry them! Most importantly, they hit right where the muzzle is pointed...and that is still the #1 concern with regards to self-defense!
